I asked God to take away my pain.

God said, No.

It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.

God said, No.

Her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience.

God said, No.

Patience is a by-product of tribulations; its isn't granted, it is learned.

I asked God to give me happiness.

God said, No.

I give you blessings.  Happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain.

God said, No.

Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow.

God said, No.

You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.

God said, No.

I will give you life so that you man enjoy all things.

I asked God to help me love others, as much as He loves me.

God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.